Most of the time, we are complaining of what we have even if the cause is very shallow. That’s incintentment. In this very imperfect life we seem to have no limits in our dreams and wishes. We strive for perfection yet always remorse on the way coz sometimes we realize that there’s no means of acheiving a very high goal post.
THINK!
At least you had a good food in your previous meal. How about those in Africa who die of hunger? You had a good night sleep last night on your own bed while the popers are lying on the dirty streets. You have the fashion you want to wear while the street children are contented with their rotten clothes. You have the internet to see the world but the blind has no choice but to listen. You have your friends and relatives who abide you in your progress yet the mentally ill people are neglected, abandoned and harassed. You have all the health and vitality to accomplish your goals while many die of diseases untreated due to poverty. You have a place to call home while some people are running for their lives during a war. YOU HAVE WHAT YOU NEED. YOU JUST DON’T SEE THEIR IMPORTANCE.
What if the world turns its back to you and be in the position of the extremes? Only in a crisis you will learn to appreciate what you have.
Now I know how you feel. You are regretful to your expectations.
Aiming high is not wrong and actually it is upbuilding. What’s wrong is when you step on others because you forget who you are. You are pretentious and you don’t reflect gratitude to your resources: the people around you, mother nature and to God.
So what now is the right thing to do? REFLECT!
You can show your gratitude in 10 SIMPLE WAYS:
1. Pray to God and thank him for all the blessings you receive.
2. Thank your parents / guardians for being there to support you.
3. Show love to your friends through actions not merely expressions.
4. Give mercy to the poor by being charitable and respecting life.
5. Clean up your immediate environment to show that you care.
6. Offer your help to those who need you with all your means
7. Love your pets. They are there to absorb your stress though they are frequently unnoticed.
8. Be a good example. Show others that you have contentment so that they will follow.
9. Be true to your self. You can never find a perfect body. What you have is already perfect for you. It’s up to you to discover the things that others envy on you.
10. Be proud of what you have. Success cannot be measured through wealth, it is through respect. So don’t deny what you have at hand. Instead, share it!
By the moments you finished reading this blog you can start reflecting by telling your immediate kins/friends:
FRIEND, I LOVE YOU AND I THANK YOU FOR BEING WITH ME AND HELPING ME BECOME A GREAT PERSON. YOU KNOW FRIEND, I’M THANKFUL OF WHAT I AM AND WHAT I HAVE.
You can tell this to them in any means you want. What’s important is the message.
THANK YOU FOR READING THIS BLOG!
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